Shallow Standards

EVER DATED SOMEONE WHO WAS JUST THE SWEETEST THING ON THE PLANET? ALWAYS PUTTING YOU FIRST,ALWAYS TELLING YOU THEY LOVE YOU,GOOD TO THEIR FRIENDS & FAMILY,AND JUST AN ALL AROUND COOL PERSON,BUT YOU JUST COULDN'T SEEM TO MAKE IT WORK.

THEN THERE'S THE OTHER PERSON. THE ONE WHO NEVER CALLS,NEVER SHOWS UP FOR YOU IN SUPPORT,NEVER TREATS YOU SPECIAL,OR SHOWS AFFECTION,BUT YOU ARE JUST "SO IN LOVE". WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN YOU CHOOSE SCENARIO B OVER A?

IT MEANS YOU'RE LOOKING AT THE WRONG THINGS TO LOVE.

AM I SURE,YES?

HERE'S WHY:

WE  (ESPECIALLY AS WOMEN) ARE ALWAYS SAYING WHAT WE WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP, BUT WE SOMETIMES CHEAT OURSELVES. INSTEAD OF LOOKING AT HOW SOMEONE CARES FOR US & WHAT'S ON THE INSIDE,WE OVER LOOK THE BULLS*** AND LOOK AT THE SIX PACK.

WHY DO WE ALLOW SOMEONE WE ARE MORE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO, TO TREAT US LIKE CRAP? IT'S BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T REALLY MATURED AND REALIZED WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT. THE TRUE ROOT OF A PERSON IS THEIR SPIRIT. IF A PERSON CAN'T JUST TREAT YOU WELL, OUT OF A PURE RESPECT FOR YOU JUST BEING ANOTHER HUMAN BEING;THEN THEY WON'T BE ABLE TO TREAT YOU RIGHT FOR ANY OTHER REASON. WHAT IS INSIDE OF A PERSONS SPIRIT, IS WHAT COMES OUT. SOMEONES SHELL COULD BE GORGEOUS,BUT WHAT ABOUT THE PART OF THEM THAT LIVES FOREVER? WHEN YOU CHEAT YOURSELF OUT OF TRUE LOVE BASED ON SHALLOW STANDARDS,THEN YOU ARE STOPPING YOUR SPIRIT FROM GROWING. LOVE SHOULD GROW YOU IN EVERY WAY. 

I HAVE ACTUALLY MET MEN & WOMEN WHO WILL STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF HOW SOMEONE LOOKS,OR THE TYPE OF CAR THEY DRIVE,REGARDLESS OF THE FACT THAT THEY CHEAT ON THEM CONSTANTLY. IF YOU ALLOW SOMEONE TO ABUSE & DISRESPECT YOU,THEN YOU NEED TO TAKE A LOOK AT SELF & FIND OUT WHY YOU FEEL LESS THAN DESERVING OF REAL LOVE. THE TRUTH IS THAT WE ATTRACT THINGS BASED ON WHERE WE ARE IN OUR PROGRESSION. IF YOU ATTRACT PEOPLE  THAT DON'T TREAT YOU RIGHT,IT'S BECAUSE YOU ARE IN A PLACE OF UNBALANCE. LIGHT REFLECTS LIGHT. 

THIS TRUTH DOESN'T ONLY APPLY TO ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS,BUT TO ALL RELATIONSHIPS. HOW YOU TREAT YOURSELF SETS THE STAGE FOR HOW OTHERS TREAT YOU. IF YOU DEMAND RESPECT THROUGH THE WAY THAT YOU LIVE AND CARRY YOURSELF, THEN NO ONE WITH ILL INTENTIONS WILL THINK THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO APPROACH YOU. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMEONE WHO SLIPS THROUGH THE CRACKS, BY PRETENDING TO BE SOME ONE THEY AREN'T,BUT YOU'LL SEE THE TRUTH EVENTUALLY. SIT DOWN AND REALLY ASK YOURSELF SOME SERIOUS QUESTIONS. ARE YOU IN THE RIGHT PLACE OF SELF LOVE , ARE YOU OPEN TO THE REAL INSTEAD OF FAKE? DO YOU KNOW HOW REAL LOVE PRESENTS ITSELF? ONCE YOU'VE DONE THIS, THEN PREPARE TO SEE HOW REAL LOVING RELATIONSHIPS OF ALL KINDS WILL START TO SHOW UP IN YOUR LIFE. DON'T HAVE SHALLOW STANDARDS AND WONDER WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIPS NEVER GET ANY DEEPER.

LOVE & LIGHT